A long period since I had posted anything.... I just want to share something I had learnt recently. This peculiar thing happen often since we're young but it had only came to this point that I realize of its existence. We commonly coin it as one sided assumption or "I should've known.....".
Remind yourself that thing doesn't always turn out the way you want it to be... either your contribution or initiative for it would be consider redundant when your counterpart does not appreciate where else your respondent could probably be just oblivious to your effort as how you are oblivious on how you're easily caught off guard at that moment.
This could be hurtful at that point when you realize of your so called self suffering but it will be a sort of guidance when you open your heart in accepting the fact. It's actually not a bad nor a good thing but it's state depends on how we think of it. We learned to understand why it is being one sided effort if we open our heart but we could go ****ing hate it when we allow ourselves to get caught in this whirlpool of impulsive thought.
Just try to understand why our assumption is not true instead of lamenting the fault on it.
