People's definition of racist

The term racist today had been bringing an even worst stigma that we could even imagine. Any situation which relates to differences of skin colors, races and religions would spark arguments or grudges with the notion of being a 'Racist'.

Well, I would say that it is the people that diverge the true meaning of racist into an unbearable meaning in view of society. We people love to identify flaw of every issues and strive for improvement. However, this will spells bane too when people start to side track from the main theme. It is in nature for us to seek growth and improve ourselves for the better but this proves to be a downside for the theme of racist.

We sided with the majority of free speakers in the age of technology where most of our thought are diluted with past incidents. Truth told by certain people would easily be viewed as a racist opinion and will be lambasted by the people of the freedom speakers.

People fail to realise racist is actually us recognising differences in people in all walk of lives. A lot of those deemed 'Racist Actions' are actually us respecting their beliefs but not trying to group people as one category which is impossible. There are different people of different characters with how they communicate and being racist is a sort of belonging to their respective group as a protection. 

However, this would not apply to extreme cases that causes negative impact. We need to optimise the negative impact and bring understanding to society that on racists are only for the evil doers.

“The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.” - George Bernard Shaw 

It just doesn't click...

A long period since I had posted anything.... I just want to share something I had learnt recently. This peculiar thing happen often since we're young but it had only came to this point that I realize of its existence. We commonly coin it as one sided assumption or "I should've known.....".

Remind yourself that thing doesn't always turn out the way you want it to be... either your contribution or initiative for it would be consider redundant when your counterpart does not appreciate where else your respondent could probably be just oblivious to your effort as how you are oblivious on how you're easily caught off guard at that moment.

This could be hurtful at that point when you realize of your so called self suffering but it will be a sort of guidance when you open your heart in accepting the fact. It's actually not a bad nor a good thing but it's state depends on how we think of it. We learned to understand why it is being one sided effort if we open our heart but we could go ****ing hate it when we allow ourselves to get caught in this whirlpool of impulsive thought.

Just try to understand why our assumption is not true instead of lamenting the fault on it.

Yeah....Psycology Battle

Been quite sometimes since I last updated the blog. Since the last post, life for me is more or less progressive. Hurdles in the form of mind challenges are my biggest foe and friend. Thank you and damn you too. I been walking these path and I know I'm strong enough to continue the walk.

Still difficulty of such anomaly from my surrounding do smack me down. But I trust and know I will continue to stand or even crawl back up if necessary.

Till next time my SELF.

'Anomaly itself is the answer thus it's unique to itself'.........

I Hope I Still Remember...

   My Favourite Teacher

When  there is one opportunity in your lifetime, would you grab it or just let it pass by? This question used to occur on me while reminiscing my past.The reason was I had once miss this particular opportunity and now it it too late. Seven years since then, still.... I could remember it. She is the first and last teacher which I think I will met in my life. She is the best in my opinion because she teaches me like  her own children. Though sadly I have forgotten her name but I will never forget the friendliness and the kindness she gave me.

        The warmth and love of a person could bring a big differences on people's life. She had accomplished that in my opinion as I am now grateful and honoured to include her in my past. Even though she teaches me for a year , it felt as I have been learning for 10 years under her guidance. Every student in my class appeal to her a lot regardless of our races and cultures because she always give the best. There isn't much pressure given by her when she try to share her knowledge and she never left our class behind.

         Now that I am a sixteen years old boy who are reaching my early's 17s, I realize that she had help me in loving English as my secondary language. I feel that she is the next reason that i realize that I love English after my sister's influence. All those teachings of her had create a new phase in my life. I have learn to write essays with composure and always be calm in writing. Whether it is technique or not, I experiences improvement through her. In my opinion, a person capabilities or technical skills doesn't just come from a mere sheet of test paper filled with individuals' scores. In my case, it refer to  individuals who think logically, unbiased in argument and being coherent in their thinking. There are people that doesn't do well in exam but it doesn't imply their inability of achieving success in life. Instead, they may be the ones who could bring differences to the world in the future. Take Albert Einstein for an example, he was treated as a failure by the teachers during his early teens but he had achieved great things in his life.(what will i achieve then?@.@). Therefore, I would never give a negative opinion of others even though they doesn't do well in the exam. On contrary, I will criticise myself to go for improvement. I will make it simple through whether you will do it through realization.

         Back to the point, this teacher of mine should haven been reaching her late 40's by now. I hope she is doing well now, in a pink of health!! and continue to spread her knowledge as well as love to the children. I would never forget the strength she had given to me especially during a time where my friends and I were together with the teacher to visit another school to compete for an oral competition. I still remember the true personalities of the teacher during the rides to the school. It was filled with laughter and the teacher was seen as a carefree and enjoyable person. Even though our competition didn't went well as we wished but she still gave us a smile.

          For the closure of this story, I would say that this is the essay which I felt difficult to write as there is a lot of things that are beyond my explanation. I did my best to share with the reader as these kind of theme is hard for me personally. I wish her the best wherever she is now. If fate is on my side, I hope we will be able to meet again so that I could personally thank her as she is the one that bring me in loving English and leading me to pursue further knowledge in English. Last of all , I like to thank all the reader who sacrifice their times in reading my humble story.  Peace^_^

"Dream is the first step to success and..

determination is the effort in pursuing achievements..."               

P\S: I went through my fb wall and saw this notes that I had written years ago... Did some editing and decided to post here hehe

Descending Through Advises

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Infants to young children and finally till adulthood, we gain more advises than giving advises. Whether from people that lend their hands for us in aspect of IQ or EQ, we are fortunate. It's a bless as we snatch these opportunities to develop as humans.

However, have you ever wonder what's on the other side of giving advises?

This impromptu question can probably be an ease to be answered by fellow teachers and leaders in profession. However, do people including them ever realize that the moment we start to give advises through our positive intention we may start to open the downfall spiral for ourselves if we're not aware of what is the pros & cons of doing so. Pat on the back if you understood what i meant, giving advises can be a fun thing to do and could be addictive once you start doing so. We start to provide all the knowledge we learned to those who seek from us or even volunteer to provide the knowledge ourselves. Finally a big smile on our face. Yeah, it's nice to even begin with the feeling we experience but is it all to consider?

Well, do you ever consider that your advises may stagnate your own growth? At this point, some may realize " Oh yea... I am knowledgeable to provide the advises and nothing is wrong....", but this could probably be the roadblock for us to step toward the next step of improving ourselves. Instead of being full of ourselves that we're well informed and knowledgeable to solves any problem, please consider about it. If this is the mindset then mostly likely you surely will meet an issue which you could not solve due to your stupid action of ending your own growth.

Ending it with this quote - " Live as if you were to die tomorrow, Learn as if you were to live forever." Mahatma Gandhi

I Link With Words

Every single days, the world is playing around with words and so do I.

                       " Time for another day", and there goes the starting line of the day. We honestly can't live without this word "Word". It's a joy whilst we perform it in our lives. It's link to everything we could possibly say such as write, think, speak and more than I myself could think about. It even solves our human's strength on feeling.

         Convey our message and let it flow to either side of the unknown..........

What's more? Well the fact that we need word to think are fascinating. I will post u a question at a very direct manner, how the hell are you able to think if word does not exist in our world. Every single things we do are link with word either you like it or not. In fact, actions we do for any reason could be link with words. Ironic but truth.... blatantly so. I can't blame it so do you, however I would choose to love and be thankful  in getting the opportunity to do something through it.

Nevertheless, word is what make this world evolve since it's creation.

"Words are, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind." -Rudyard Kipling

OUR LIFE WITH MUSIC

A sense of dazzling moment that it's true that uniqueness is one of the key to grasp attention. Simply refreshing

A music video without story will always be lacking somewhere and this song tells you how important it's for a music video to relates on something

Unable to comprehend the meaning of the language does not mean it's lacking as music is the bridge that connect our feeling

Personally all time favorite. Bless to able to enjoy music and I'm sure you are too