Descending Through Advises

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Infants to young children and finally till adulthood, we gain more advises than giving advises. Whether from people that lend their hands for us in aspect of IQ or EQ, we are fortunate. It's a bless as we snatch these opportunities to develop as humans.

However, have you ever wonder what's on the other side of giving advises?

This impromptu question can probably be an ease to be answered by fellow teachers and leaders in profession. However, do people including them ever realize that the moment we start to give advises through our positive intention we may start to open the downfall spiral for ourselves if we're not aware of what is the pros & cons of doing so. Pat on the back if you understood what i meant, giving advises can be a fun thing to do and could be addictive once you start doing so. We start to provide all the knowledge we learned to those who seek from us or even volunteer to provide the knowledge ourselves. Finally a big smile on our face. Yeah, it's nice to even begin with the feeling we experience but is it all to consider?

Well, do you ever consider that your advises may stagnate your own growth? At this point, some may realize " Oh yea... I am knowledgeable to provide the advises and nothing is wrong....", but this could probably be the roadblock for us to step toward the next step of improving ourselves. Instead of being full of ourselves that we're well informed and knowledgeable to solves any problem, please consider about it. If this is the mindset then mostly likely you surely will meet an issue which you could not solve due to your stupid action of ending your own growth.

Ending it with this quote - " Live as if you were to die tomorrow, Learn as if you were to live forever." Mahatma Gandhi

I Link With Words

Every single days, the world is playing around with words and so do I.

                       " Time for another day", and there goes the starting line of the day. We honestly can't live without this word "Word". It's a joy whilst we perform it in our lives. It's link to everything we could possibly say such as write, think, speak and more than I myself could think about. It even solves our human's strength on feeling.

         Convey our message and let it flow to either side of the unknown..........

What's more? Well the fact that we need word to think are fascinating. I will post u a question at a very direct manner, how the hell are you able to think if word does not exist in our world. Every single things we do are link with word either you like it or not. In fact, actions we do for any reason could be link with words. Ironic but truth.... blatantly so. I can't blame it so do you, however I would choose to love and be thankful  in getting the opportunity to do something through it.

Nevertheless, word is what make this world evolve since it's creation.

"Words are, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind." -Rudyard Kipling

OUR LIFE WITH MUSIC

A sense of dazzling moment that it's true that uniqueness is one of the key to grasp attention. Simply refreshing

A music video without story will always be lacking somewhere and this song tells you how important it's for a music video to relates on something

Unable to comprehend the meaning of the language does not mean it's lacking as music is the bridge that connect our feeling

Personally all time favorite. Bless to able to enjoy music and I'm sure you are too

"CAUSE WHERE THERE'S DESIRE

  THERE'S GONNA BE A FLAME

                                                                                                 WHERE THERE'S A FLAME

                                                                                                 SOMEONE BOUND TO GET BURN

  BUT JUST BECAUSE IT BURNS

  DOESN'T MEAN YOU'RE GONNA DIE

  YOU GOTTA GET UP

                                                                                                 AND....

                                                                                                                 TRY TRY TRY

Yours sincerely,

Sin Yen

Meant To Be

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Broken Pieces

I shall...

Put my trust in you

Time will reckons ahead of me

Light will enlightens your surrounding

It will never be an ending

Till your word...

Is

I shall...

Collect the pieces

Till you're back again

Decision will be there

On tick I will...

With your final word

You shall...

Push the last pieces

Stories will end 

Only 

When you make the decision

You shall...

Bring peace and promise

Honesty and sincerity

Keen to hold 

or

Part well

Yes...

That's a cycle 

A deserving 

only

To

Our believes

Credited To: Sin Yen

Relate the Related Issues

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Sitting in the MRT waiting to alight and heads back home~ 

Should I?...... Hmm maybe not.

Already a mature person in age, as for brainwise well i'm not the one to decide but it's the job of my fellow companions. Still.... calling home to ask for well being is not an easy task. It's seem like calling home must consist of a reason and I alway wonder why I could not do the other way around. This should sounds familiar to some but there's also a "owh" sentiment by those who did this practice easily since young.

Ironically it may seems when I used to think that why do you waste money to call your loved ones for no reason. Well since I'm young, forgive me about that.. as maturity sets in we tend to be more sentimental especially toward things around us which eventually lead us to being more responsible.

What about acting as a spoil brat at home when you know you should not. Foolish and it hurts by the time thing had already happen... However, we could be at ease to know that they actually love us when they care to tend for us during our foolish moments. Furthermore, it's actually a repetitive cycles that happen in a lot of families nonetheless able to strengthen the relationship.

Best of all, declaring a one sided cold war with your loved ones which actually is an unprogressive war that eventually led to your own defeat. They did that once and we're just repeating what they had done. So... we're just digging our own graves. Sooner or later we will give in as we are still a minimee of them thus it's actually a play in a park for them while an irritated ending for us. Sounds sad but it's the truth mostly because they are the ones that bring us to this world and we are still under their wings until the time is right for us to fly. 

Communication- the human connection is the key to personal and career success -Paul J. Meyer

A simple dedication to Her

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Apart from usual monotonous and unsensual talks in my blog, this will be an ironically funny and bright fiction story which i dedicated to a friend of mine. We'll just refer her as Cherish due to respect. Here it goes~!

It's a story which sounds childish but it did gave me quite a laugh now that i've come to think about it today.

Me: Here it goes again, visiting the mental needies .....
Cousin: Come on! You should look on the bright side and enjoy ^^....
Me: Well i'm enjoying all right with the fact that we're doing this every year when CNY is up.
Cousin: It's our grandma  wish.. so just bear with it?
Me: Uh - huh..

(Reaching the mental patient home)

Me: I wonder what's that uncle doing there poking in the longkang?
Cousin: Why don't you go and ask
..
Me: Hey uncle how's the fishing!!! The longkang looks clear for fishing
Uncle: Are your retarded? How would there be fishes in longkong
Me: But you're holding a fishing rod
Uncle: This is not a fishing rod, it's my cane!
Me: Owh i'm sorry about that.

Cousin: What did he say?
Me: Erm... no idea but just feeling trolled by him when i tried too much on trying to mingle with him
Cousin: Hehe go and challenge him to be the most foolish between you two
Me: I'm not foolish for your info!! Just trying to be on par with him
Cousin: But you're getting degraded by him instead
Me: Fine ill go challenge him
...

Me: Hi uncle, do i look like a foreigner?
Uncle: Yes you do after just now!
Me: Okay... but honestly do i really look like one?
Uncle: Yes you do and since you insist on asking me, i wanna know why!
Me: Well i thought it will be funny if you said no and  then i said i look like one in foreign country cuz it will be funny and dumb of me of saying that i look foreigner when obviously i am a foreigner in foreign country.....
Uncle: Well you're totally a dumb now

Cousin: Haha, now i wonder that mental case uncle is better than u....
Me: Okay stop it!

As a closure, I hope this will cheer my friend who i hope will be feeling happy now ^^

To close of this section, i'm leaving with this poem to her as a gift:

Whisper to Look Forward

Last drop of sound

Whisper till its end

The love shall be remembered

Pains and regret shall too

Breeze whispers in you

Time flies but never dies

It's time to believe 

Within you

The high tide sets in

Butterflies and jellopies 

New days will continue

Friends shall alway be there

Sand glass cycles eternally

Bond forever exist 

Whisper of the strength

It's a rich and meaningful experiences

Cherish what's been done 

and

Your lovely heart

Will whisper "Look Forward"


Credited to: Sin Yen

Bliss of Holding Hands

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A simple gesture of holding hands with your companion whether he or she is your partner, friends or even your close ones will create a meaningful moment which is precious to both of you. Defining holding hand with  the classic end on positive note may sound cliché but it's true to the norm especially ones that truly understand the importance of connecting with our loved ones.

Simple example of couples that practice holding hands only after marriage will set this interesting story down the road. One the other hand, wait.... holding hands only after marriage? Yes you're right, those who may have doubt at this point need to realise that practices like this did happen in reality. You may ponder why on earth would I not hold my partner's hand when the opportunity is upon us. Well the explanation is simple yet delicate once you read of what comes next.

Have you ever see your parents still holding their hands frequently as they used to in the past?... Well mostly will give you the answer no. That's the point of why some practices only to hold hand after marriage or after a period of time. Only then will they realise how meaningful it is to hold your partner's hand as you start to cherish the moment being together while trusting each other. Sound simple but it's definitely an effective practices especially when you observed elderly couple held their hands which honestly warm my heart as a hopeful in future. The essence of holding hand is the word trust and it is not to be overlooked upon. In instance, I put you in the scenario where you are force to hold hand with a stranger, how would you feel then? Unease, terrify or awkwardness...? Yes you're thinking about it now and that's why you should realise that holding hands do not just come from nowhere but it serve the purpose of developing trust that echoes the importance in completing a simple act of holding hands.

We learned to understand each other through holding hand that indirectly allow us to identify our position in his or her heart thus promoting love, care and understanding. Above writing does consist of a vague overall explanation however it is to deliver in reply to the portrayal of an unportrayable events that happen in every seconds of our lives. Now, the rest of the discussion within yourself is a blank paper. It's how you're going to write the true meaning of holding hands that underlies differences in each of us to dictate the flow of thoughts.
"I Think the reward for conformity is that everyone likes you except yourself" - Rita Mae Brown.

Perpetual Crack in the Period of "Now"

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Ends of February... He had just received the 'Okay' sign to step out of his comfort zone. Unprepared and flustered had pulsed down deep within him as the journey he's going to take would be an unprecedented and totally different experience from his peers.

Years of being with his parents, the boy finally step out from that bounded protection however with an instant 180 degree change rather than a cumulative phase changing process.

.

.

( What should I do.... I'm totally alone to handle this changes that smack right onto my face. Yes I know my family is behind me... I mean right now! The actual moment of facing such great heights on a foreign soil that flourish exponentially in term of higher education compared to my homeland.)

That boy was correct at that time... he did faced the best challenges that could be hurl at him when he attended the best education level of that rightful age in the country. Everything seems to go exactly like how the boy predicted. Adaptation, fundamental in knowledge and know-hows in that country spooked the boy right of from the start. The fact that the boy faces such problem where fundamental knowledge is needed the most at that period... had speak of what would be a big ride to the end.

Though the boy had actually struggle the most in adapting on the new environment where everything seem to be out of places, like a mess up puzzle... Adaptation is the first thing that boy tried to learn where it is the first step to every problem in which a sense of adaptation would kick out the progress. This little boy experiences gap and unfamiliar scenes at great depth for the first time. A total of several months were needed by him to accustom on the changes. The time he took also put his studies onto the front line of death. Hopes was indefinitely lost on the 2nd half of his own survival in that year. The resurgence of him to pull everything back to place was still inadequate to cover his study. His ultimate failure to do so had gave him a first taste of a major fall of his life. One the other hand, a second chance was given to him and he took it with determination to climb out of the pit.

The second year was full with consistency and perseverance where everything seem to go smoothly. He himself was proud of his efforts that could clearly be seen in his college performances. However, he did still miss the chance to achieve  feat as he miss by a single credit point to continue his study. Yes.... a second major fall in two consecutive year... but this time with a smile on his face as to how he did put in his best to chase back all the necessary knowledge he needs in this country education that he had never possess before in his life.

Two years fueled with happiness and sadness that none really could comprehend as when the little boy looks at his peers that took different path down their roads which looks obnoxiously easier.....

(It's seems like I took a task bigger than what I could handle while looking at my friends continue to climb.... I am happy for them while a squeeze of my heart seems to be happening too...)

There came the boy now standing back up for the third time in a different education path in the same country in search of new steps.

Yea... that boy is actually me, a mind blowing experience I would say and not everyone could have such privilege to go through one. It may sound ironic to say it's a privilege on this particular event but it does not sounds wrong considering you could experience this path where generally none had took this path. Self-reflection seems to be always going on in my mind to absorb every possible learning point from those 2 years and be able to use it today.

However, there's a bitter feeling of why I did not choose the easier path 2 years back earlier where everything will be much smoother than it could possibly be than today. Maybe God wants to let me experience first hand of failure and let me walk the long pavement down the road. No matter how is it, I still believe there's light down the tunnel as to how many people put it that way. Quote given by Barack Obama 'If you're walking down the right path and you're willing to keep walking, eventually you'll make progress.' speak for itself, it may be hard for me to walk down the road but all I need to do now is to endure till the last. To fellow reader, never stop walking.

This video relates of how we should continue to stand up and continue to walk

                                         

More Extrovert so to say?...

TADA~!~!~! Reason for this amazing topic? Ahaha I realized that my previous two topics were more of a introvert way of presenting my thoughts which may not be a bad thing you know. Well definitely there's two ways (positive and negative) for both intro or extrovert.

The different elements brought Introvert Vs Extrovert. Dang you have it! The fight of polar characteristics where conservative vs adventurous,  social freak vs self-discipline and whatever that opposite one another ( How bout yin yang~?)

As a blogger myself, I would ultimately say that my blog as for now would be more of an introvert specie which would spark interest of the question "Why?' when people usually use blog to pour their feeling which may end up as an extrovert essay. Why? Well it's simple as I wanted to pour my feeling in a soft manner with thoughts and orderly manner. Side note to this topic: I define introvert as more of a mutual understanding of trust and believe on that one topic while extrovert would be a share of wide elements to thrust the enjoyment for readers! Not a bad thing for both type Aye~!

However, I'm more in the spot of combining the strength of both perspectives into one which I viewed as the best way to integrate myself onto a higher level of improvement in terms of language. Perhaps there's more ways than this but you never know if not to try, right? No! Well in a sense of knowing that the next step would probably lead to somewhere close to the final goal and then it would be a big Yes ~.

There's another Yes as an answer if you readers ask whether i felt more attached to this writer-reader topic where i really do interact directly with the reader with my nonstop expression. Haha, I would still continue to do what I do best and seek to improve gradually without haste which could be detrimental to my love of blogging right? Yes Yes Yes! Keep positive ^^~

Quote: ' Telling an introvert to go to a party is like telling a saint go to Hell.' - Criss Jami

What happen on the other side?

As historians around the world get fascinated in the world history ranging from the the civil war that landed upon the New World to the unification of the Three Kingdoms in the eastern continent, there are also myths and ideologies of the creation of the other  puzzle pieces which some may refer them as the period of gods existence in the land we are standing on today. Two different opinion from the free thinker and believer would stood by in debating whether god itself really do stand among us or at least exist in this world.

Like all mankind that breathe the same air in this world, I would love to share some of my thoughts of this topic, specifically on Greek Mythology which at present spark most of my interests to learn more of this great believe. Films released in recent years such as Clash of the Titans and its follow up Wrath of the Titans further engulfed me in the rich story of the Greek Mythology. 

The 3 main gods in greek, Zeus the leader of the olympians and more easily recognized as the thunder god who hold the thunderbolt in his hand, Poseidon the god who rules all the seas with his trident while lastly Hades the God of the Underworld and mostly said to has the most unpopular position among the three gods after imprisoning their father, Cronus in the very depth of the underworld, Tartarus itself. There's always saying that all of them revolved themselves with lust that perpetuate how we perceived the god would be portrayed. 

Unlike other myths in this world, the events that happen in greek mythology are full of incidents where the raping of own sister happen in order for marriage to happen and the abduction of goddess for the sake of forced marriage. At this point, it would definitely be surprising how such events could actually happen in the world of gods. Never would we had guessed that gods too actually have the essence of destruction, lust. The beauty of Zeus's own sister, Hera made Zeus himself wanted to take Hera as her wife while Zeus too has other love affairs. Poseidon on the other hand has Amphitrite as his consort and even fathered numerous children including those with mortal beings. Hades too did his part by kidnapping Persephone through trickery and lies. All of this occur within the grasp of lust and such word should be reckon for us human being to learn and take note.

Of course we could not forget the heroic contributions by these gods which teach us the need to love, fight for justice and impartiality. Not naming any of these examples as a lot of this positive events could even be portray in today society where we learn how to behave in an utmost positive character to survive with integrity and respect. though our actions may well be more or less significant than those of olympian gods but we do carry out all this meaningful and loved actions with sincerity that are far no less than those of gods. Well.... mostly, as there's always a minority of opposite individual that do things differently than the norms.

To end it, enjoy the meaning of this quote " The merit of originality is not novelty, it is sincerity". Thank you for reading till now.

Once in awhile a click from me?...

Well the person in this picture prompted me to hold on for a moment to reconsider and think of how lives are full of optimisms and passion is the beginning of many first steps toward the next.

As a facebook user, I admit to be more of a passive user rather that a hyper participant in the world of social  sites. However, the person above gave me the rush of urgency to click the share button in facebook which normally would not be my way of doings.

In this " Hyped Up World", Rose the 87 years old woman is the epitome of passion that never dies. She enrolled as a college student in her golden age to pursue her dream of entering a college for education. Yes, your wow factor till this point is correct as Rose has just recently received her college degree and students across her batch are full of admiration of her passion and attitude that the coming of an age is not an excuse to halt our dreams and goals in our lives.

She left a huge impression on me during a portion of her speech which goes by ' We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing', well she is right. As human, we compete fairly in this competitive world but she is an elder who could perform as much as a person half a century younger than her in the college and receiving much respect and admiration from her friends which are groups of hopeful who are at their prime age of pursuing higher education. She beat the perception that golden age citizen should just enjoy their lives and merely taking care of grandchildren as what most of people at such ages should be doing. The passion she has allows her to drive on her dream of entering college and mingles with new social groups while continuing her duty as a grandparent. Respect is not enough for her but I feel that we need to understand and stop for the moment to think how we could accumulate from her positive attitudes. Quote such as ' Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you' by Oprah Winfrey fits the bill!